Bollywood actress Alia Bhatt has achieved a different position with her acting. There are millions of fans of Alia’s fashion, beauty and acting. Alia is not only a successful actress but is also playing her role as a wife, daughter and mother. But often she is worried about her daughter Raha. Like every mother, Alia too is full of confusion and apprehensions regarding her daughter Raha. Recently, Alia asked many questions to spiritual guru Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev during a program. He asked many questions about today’s parents and children, let us know what Sadhguru answered.
Alia said ‘I am a worried mother’
Alia asked Sadhguru that she is very worried about Raha. Many times this question arises in my mind whether I am a good mother, am I doing right for Raha. Answering this question, Sadhguru said that worried parents cannot be good parents. First of all you have to stop thinking that you can teach them anything. Because children are more joyful than you. You learn many things from children. Parenting does not mean what you ‘teach’ the child, but how you ‘present’ yourself to him. If you yourself remain stressed and worried, your child will also learn the same from you. Children are those whom you cannot make sad, their nature is that they remain happy and you and I are the ones who have to be happy. So we need to learn from them.
How to prepare your child for the future?
Sadhguru replied to this and said who is happier between you and your daughter Raha. Alia replied yes, on this Sadhguru said that children are closest to life. This is the age in which they know how to be happy without any reason. Most parents teach the child right from wrong, but more than teaching, we need to observe. Provide a safe and happy environment for the child to grow, the rest will develop naturally. What do you have to teach, rather you should learn to live with them yourself. How do they see and enjoy life?
How to teach children to win and lose?
Alia questioned that her daughter Raha always wants to win and calls her cheating when she loses. On this, Sadhguru said that instead of teaching morality to children about victory and defeat, you should behave correctly yourself. Play with them yourself and take victory and defeat with ease. Children will automatically learn to accept victory and defeat with ease. Don’t make this a measure of honesty.
Do children ask questions without logic?
To this Sadhguru replied that instead of giving answers in facts, keep the curiosity of children alive. If you also do not know, then make it clear to them that I do not know and find the answer to the question together with them. Anyway, the value of information is going to reduce in future because AI will take care of everything. Therefore, children’s consciousness and joy will be their strength. It is better to make children aware rather than cramming.
How to do good parenting?
Answering this question of Alia Bhatt, Sadhguru said that you have to remove the word ‘parenting’ from your mind. You just act as a good friend and guide to the children. When you take upon yourself the burden of being a parent, you unknowingly become a dictator. Parenting is not a race for perfection, rather it is a journey of growing together. If you focus on becoming a better person, you will become a better parent yourself.
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